Secret Things that Parents Do……….

Being emotionally non-nurturing seems to be in the blood of every Chinese parent , see 5 Secret Things Chinese Parents do to Their Kids at Home item (2) :

 emotionally and verbally abuse their children

“When Chinese children fail at something (such as winning a piano competition or scoring 100% on a science test), everything about them is criticized, from their study and sleep habits to their looks and food preferences.  They are called anything from “stupid, lazy, and fat” to “ungrateful and undeserving of higher education.”  They are made to despise every aspect of themselves for failing, and the only way to escape the emotional torture is to do better next time.”

http://awesomebitch.wordpress.com/2011/05/19/13-things-chinese-parents-will-never-confess-to/

Parents beware of how academics are highly revered instead of a happy and NURTURING childhood at your kid’s emotional health demise.

http://awesomebitch.wordpress.com/2011/04/20/10-signs-of-successful-chinese-parenting/